Personal Childhood And Past Trauma Stories:
The Beginning of Me And Ben
It’s 2021, the end of it
I finally broke free of the spiritual trap of the so-called “Twin Flame” journey. After six years of past life healing, inner child work, and intense energy shifts… I realized something huge: The reason everything else I set my mind to healed—instantly or within months— but this “Twin Flame” stuff didn’t… was because it was never true.
It was a loop. A trap. Designed to keep people looking outside themselves. To justify red flags. To wait. To suffer in longing instead of stepping fully into joy, purpose, and divinity.
So I decided to destroy it. Kate and I worked fast—surgically removing every lock, chain, cage, soul braid, contract, and energetic hook tied to that indoctrination. We cleared timelines, collapsed illusions, and cut out the lies.
I even brought in another practitioner to double-confirm the cleanse— No more traps. No more going back. The healing was done in about two weeks. Gone.
And for the first time… I felt free. Free to flirt. Not from a void. Not to numb or escape. But because I was full—overflowing with self-love. I was feeling myself.
I remembered this cute guy who had booked a session with me about a month earlier. At the end of the session, he said: “That was nice… we should do that again sometime.” Which is totally date language.
So Kate and I tuned into the frequency. Felt it out.
I aligned my timelines with the right now partner. No expectations. No pressure. Just aligned.
I texted him: “Hey, where do you live and how old are you?”
He replied.
I checked that he wasn’t seeing anyone. Then I asked if he wanted to merge with me during a healing— to help work on someone’s father who had cancer. He said yes.
We started talking every day after that. One thing led to another… And by September 2022, he was living with me and my kids. No promises. No contracts. Just love, day by day.
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